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Search by City? by ItWasFate posted Today – 2:45pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by polyAVD posted Today – 4:36pm

Match Questions

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Which makes for a better relationship? by ctsnola posted Today – 4:05pm

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THANK YOU OKCUPID! (gender) by ItWasFate posted 39 minutes ago

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Feature request: additional question sorting options by B-eye-en-gee-oh posted Today – 2:22pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Has OKCupid Changed? by ctsnola posted Today – 3:44pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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he ask for sex on fist date by amp-here posted Today – 5:38am

Profile Suggestions

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Would profile improvements do anything for me? by ctsnola posted Today – 2:51pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Can't find other gender/orientation options by TryUsingBees posted Today – 3:00pm


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If a guy lied about his cock size, would that be a deal breaker? by roxxr posted Today – 9:15pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Love by roxxr posted Today – 8:07pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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UNWANTED ATTENTION? by Vrochet_Celours posted Today – 3:45pm


Discussions about life and love.

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I'm Bob the heretic. Can I ruin something that used to make you happy today? by dontwant_an_sn posted 34 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by tyrebiter posted Dec 13

Alternative Lifestyles

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Wet Clothes, Anyone? by XenitH686 posted Yesterday – 12:03pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by KarmaLyser posted 55 minutes ago

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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1

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