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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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How do I know if I am classified as "replies often" or "replies selectively"? by L-A-R posted Today – 2:46pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by longlegsinmx posted 6 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Should Gay Marriage and/or Civil Unions for commited Homosexual Couples be legalized in the entire United States? by Chaeddd posted Aug 19

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Sharing the most typical, most annoying, stupidest or ironic snippets of profiles. by BiggestCockEver posted Today – 12:45pm

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Thumbs UP or DOWN to the profile above you? by HysteriaDGK posted Today – 2:44pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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test by niceguymrniceguy posted Yesterday – 5:37am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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White men by WskyTangoFoxtrot posted Today – 12:19pm

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Sideways pictures - by WskyTangoFoxtrot posted 40 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Casual lesbian funtimes by lesbianbuffy posted Aug 6


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strumpfhosen by vincen_van posted Today – 6:02am

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Evolution has never been observed by Phyrewerx posted 47 minutes ago

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Definition of Modern Masculinity by Phyrewerx posted Today – 5:50pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Those constant "visitors" that never message you.... by Phyrewerx posted 53 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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WHAT is the NAME of the Poster ABOVE you by SixTwentyTwo posted Aug 20

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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i wear a suit and tie to work by calandale1 posted Today – 1:17am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by swyat posted 30 minutes ago

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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uk meeting by La-Ritournelle posted Aug 15